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Party Thrower Tips

Responsibilities | The Spread | Setting Up | Crowd Control | Promotion

Party Safe

  • Close all access to your roof or cliff. Make sure no one climbs over the fence to pee or "get a better view" because, as you may well know, people don’t have great balance when they’re drunk. Try to avoid being stuck in a very bad situation.
  • If one of your friends likes to party too hard, let him or her know that you don’t want to have to take care of them all night. No one wants to embarrass themselves or be a burden, plus they’ll probably have a better time at the party if they remember it.
  • Be cautious of drinking games. There are many other games you can play where the main objective is not to drink, and they are just as fun. It doesn’t mean you can’t drink while you play them, but it will keep people from drinking too fast and will get people to socialize more.
  • If you notice someone appearing very drunk early on, call 9-1-1, as s/he may have been slipped a predator drug (e.g., roofie, GHB). Even the biggest lightweight isn’t going to be falling-over drunk after one or two drinks, so make sure you keep an eye on your guests’ safety.
  • Remember over-indulgence of alcohol or any drug can lead to risky situation (read our information about serving alcohol and the signs of alcohol poisoning).
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Responsibilities

  • You are responsible for the safety and welfare of all your guests, including the random people that found their way into your home. You can be held liable for anyone in your home, so make sure everyone is alright.
  • Keep in mind that drinking under the age of 21 is illegal, so you might want to check identification at the door.
  • Be aware of who is in your house. Strangers are more likely to start fights and out-of-towners are more likely to over-drink, so make sure you keep an eye on everyone.
  • Make sure you know the laws that apply to you. If you can prevent anything that might attract police or get you into trouble, you have probably thrown a good party.
  • Keep in mind the restrictions on your lease. There may be certain things that you can’t do and if you get caught, you can get kicked out of your house or possibly fined.
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The Spread

  • Provide food for your guests. Food prevents people from drinking on an empty stomach. Avoid salty food though - thirsty guests tend to drink more.
  • Serve non-alcoholic beverages mocktails. Try to buy quality non-alcoholic beverages instead of the cheapest ones you can find. People should not feel pressured to drink only alcohol.
  • When deciding on mixers for drinks, try to stick with non-carbonated bases like fruit juice, so the alcohol is absorbed at a slower rate. And again, make sure someone is keeping track of how much people are drinking because mixers obviously mask the taste of alcohol and may cause people to drink more.
  • Serve alcohol in closed containers instead of large open bowls of "jungle juice." It is much more difficult for people to drug closed containers, keeping your guests safer.
  • If you decide to get a keg, make sure it has a registration tag on it all the time. Don’t tear if off, even if the keg is empty and your party was 2 weeks ago. If found, kegs without the tag can result in hefty fines.
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Setting Up

  • 21+ signs on the front door don’t help your case with the police. You’re not fooling anyone and a paper sign written in marker does not absolve you of responsibility.
  • Hanging a tarp and using it as a gate does not close the party off to the police. It is a violation of the fire code and the police are more likely to approach your party.
  • If there is not a gate separating back patios from the street, they are considered public property. This includes those ocean-side patios all along DP, so keep that in mind when you are throwing a party.
  • If a keg is visible from the street, the police can enter your house under the party nuisance ordinance. This means that they don’t have to knock before they come in so don’t argue; it won’t help your case.
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Crowd Control

  • Plan how people will be getting in and out of the party and where you want them to be once they’re in. Restricting the entrance and exit to one door will make it easier to regulate foot traffic. Also, section off the parts of the house you want to keep private.
  • Consider getting a bouncer. It will keep away random party-goers and make the party safer and more fun. A bouncer can also keep track of who is leaving and make sure they have a safe way of getting home and are not too drunk.
  • Instead of having guests mix their own drinks, have a bartender mix them who can limit the amount of alcohol in each drink. It will make the alcohol last longer and keep the drunkest person in the house from pouring a red cup full of vodka. The drunker they get, the more it seems some people want to drink. Intervene if someone is overly intoxicated, hostile, or loudly insulting other people.
  • Establish a set end time to the party. If you don’t, then people will stay as long as they want and no one wants to host a party that they themselves are tired of.
  • Make sure to lock the doors when everyone leaves. Sometimes you get those strange guests that like what they see during the party and want to come back and take it when everyone has gone to sleep.
  • Brainstorm an "evacuation plan" in case your party gets out of hand.
  • Give unwanted partygoers a warning first and give them the chance to stop what they are doing. Just in case, program the Isla Vista Foot Patrol (805) 681-4179 in your cell in the event you may need backup.
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Promotion

  • Don’t advertise an open party on Facebook. If your intent is not to get tons of random freeloaders looking for some free drinks, then stay away from Facebook or make it a "closed" event. Odds are, you’re not friends with all your friends’ friends so don’t advertise it for them.
  • Don’t make alcohol the main theme of the event. People go to parties to socialize, not to drink. If you promote alcohol as the main reason for the party, then that is what you’re going to get. A party that no one really remembers will probably not be remembered as a good party.
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